Indigo invitational Y4
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@Gammaman I have been in toxic relationships and it took years of my life from me. I'm talking physical and mental abuse and there were signs I did not want to see. I don't know you or your partner but it seems unhealthy to make threads against things she don't aprove and also she should like you for who you are no matter what you are wearing.
My girlfriend knows how much I love denim and she don't care about clothes too much. Sometimes she asks me too wear this or that for dinner because she likes it but mostly she lets me do my denim thing and no matter what I look like she loves me and that's the thing... Maybe you can compromise, for example I have bought some nice 555 duck pants because my girl asked to maybe on one day in the week I don't go all indigo... So I had an excuse to buy something nice and she likes when I wear it.
In the end you have to decide what you gonna do about it but if you were my buddy I would say leave while you can. My life got better by 100% when I did
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@Gammaman I believe that some compromise in a relationship is inevitable and even healthy (at least in my case because I don't like a lot about myself and if someone I love helps me "file my rough edges" it's welcome). Having said that, however, if someone wants to distort or shape us, in my opinion this has little to do with love and a lot to do with control. If you have the feeling that the hated Bib is just the beginning, I would leave everything alone before anyone risks seriously hurting themselves.
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@FlavourFade I feel this…I have a nice pair of black freenote cloth Wilkes cut for special occasions. It feels nice for a fella to look a bit dressed up and impress the misses
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Hi thanks for the great responses. I’m going to wash them and just wear them for work I think.
No me to I can’t be dressed by a women unless I’m unable to. It’s our own choice to wear what we want and when it’s like our last little bit of freedom being taken away from us. My soul would shrivel up and die.
For me now I’m wearing some old 14oz 777 and can’t wait for my bibs to dry. -
This a real tear or rip caused from wear mostly from me crossing my legs. But I don’t mind it.
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@Gammaman man that’s a real beautiful hue with all that wear
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man I’m new but love this forum and the beautiful advice you can get from it…anyways in response to @Gammaman heres my wife’s card to me with my oni! Cheers brother…life is life and sometimes finding that balance can be absolute perfection
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@olblue wow! That is looking incredible!
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@DeeDee85 thanks buddy
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@olblue great jacket and wife buddy
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@FlavourFade thanks so much buddy! So proud of her…all about the wife life
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Nice card and thanks @olblue
These have dried now and I’m back wearing them while she’s at work.
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they‘re looking fantastic @Gammaman
And +1 on the „stay true to what you love“here‘s my 5 month SBG update
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@Gammaman so good I love the bibs…another IH piece I dream of owning. Waiting for the wabash ones to drop. Keep fading these are so beautiful already
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@Mizmazzle it is!!! But it’s been awhile since she’s had an opportunity to do so and same goes for me. Shes a vintage clothes reseller (i have so many great made in USA old workwear from her) but we’re trying to buy land to dedicate ourselves back into that world
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month 5 baby!!! Let’s go
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Month five down. Had their first wash about a week ago.
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@Gammaman What a craftsmanship! Loving the life you've poured into these 805
It is really moving to hear everyone's care and good words of wisdom life partner. Best wishes and vibes