Bandelier National Park (Los Alamos) - Lots of interesting native cliff dwellings and kivas to check out. Anticipate a short walk 1-3 miles total. Could start some much longer out & back hikes that are 20+ miles.
Standard & Strange (Santa Fe) - Hands down "the" best men's clothing store in all of New Mexico.
Meow Wolf (Santa Fe) - Interactive and immersive art exhibit for children and adults. Plan to dedicate 1-2 hours here.
Drinks:
Ex Novo Brewery - every beer here is a winner, I honestly don't know how they do it.
Gravity Bound Brewery - small spot but extremely well crafted beers and kombucha
Bow & Arrow Brewery - the only female, native owned brewery in the USA
Food:
El Campo @ Los Poblanos Farm - a historic lavender farm with some of the best food in the city
Farm & Table - top notch, farm to table restauraunt.
El Cotorro - arguably the best tacos in the city
El Patio - arguably the best New Mexican food in the city
Frontier Restaurant - low key, NM staple right on Route 66. Awesome spot for well priced breakfast
Sawmill Market - food hall with options for the whole family!
Indian Pueblo Kitchen - indigenous cuisine!
To-Do:
Take the (longest in US) tram up to the Sandia Mountains
Hike the petroglyphs trail
Take a bike ride or hike in the Bosque (ABQ is the only city in the US with an "undeveloped" river running through it.
This is just scratching the surface. PM me if you are in ABQ and would like more recommendations!